Words have tremendous power to build, or they have the power to destroy. When we use words, we have the power to change how we feel simply by the words we choose to describe our experience or feelings. In life, a big part of reaching our goals and getting what we want has to do with communication with others. By using words in a positive and powerful way, your communication with others will dramatically increase in effectivity.
The technique I describe here is one powerful and fun way to increase your effective communication with others.
How many times a day are you asked, "How's it going?" And how many times do you say, "Fine". Typically this happens in passing, and neither person even thinks about what is being said, and beyond that, there is no emotional connection. One simple way make that exchange electric and fun is to use positive words. Using positive words in this case changes the entire experience.
As an example, I've created a list of 101 words or phrases that could be said to the question, "How are you doing?" The list isn't exhaustive, yet it gives you a start. Use the list choosing words from it to say in your response. Say, "I'm feeling (or doing)...(and then use a word on the list)." Make sure you say it with enthusiasm. For example, you can say, "I'm feeling stupendous!" Say that out loud with gusto and see if it doesn't change immediately the way you feel.
An even more effective way of responding is to take a combination of the words from the list and put them together. For example, the word "particular" may be confusing to most people (and yourself) if you were to respond simply, "I'm feeling particular!" Yet, if you combine it with another powerfully positive work such as "fantastic", then you are able to respond by saying, "I'm feeling particularly fantastic!" Wow! What a response! The more creative you are, the more fun it will be.
Look over each of the words and figure out how you could use them in your response.
101 Powerfully Positive Words (in no particular order):
1. Fantastic
2. Stupendous
3. Fabulous
4. Magnificent
5. Good
6. Great
7. The best
8. Better than ever
9. Incredible
10. Unbelievable
11. Tremendous
12. Prodigious
13. Marvelous
14. Wonderful
15. Brilliant
16. Superb
17. Terrific
18. Excellent
19. Remarkable
20. Exceptional
21. Phenomenal
22. Extraordinary
23. Amazing
24. Awesome
25. Colossal
26. Brilliant
27. Stunning
28. Out of this world
29. Enormous
30. Splendid
31. Glorious
32. Superlative
33. Grand
34. Unmatched
35. Untouchable
36. Unbeatable
37. Best ever
38. Outstanding
39. Supreme
40. First-class
41. First-rate
42. Joyful
43. Delightful
44. Committed
45. Impressive
46. Boundless
47. Unlimited
48. Abundant
49. On top of the world
50. Astonishing
51. Mind-blowing
52. Mind-boggling
53. Sensational
54. Awe-inspiring
55. Spectacular
56. Radiant
57. Extreme
58. Especially
59. Particular
60. Staggering
61. Superb
62. Unparalleled
63. Unrivaled
64. Supreme
65. Invincible
66. Indomitable
67. Absolutely
68. Blissful
69. Elated
70. Ecstatic
71. Jubilant
72. Happy
73. Overjoyed
74. Delighted
75. Inspired
76. Rich
77. Beyond belief
78. Inconceivable
79. Stupefying
80. Unthinkable
81. Bewildering
82. Exciting
83. Astounding
84. Overwhelming
85. Extravagant
86. Beaming
87. Resplendent
88. Intense
89. Radical
90. Hard to believe
91. Beyond compare
92. Incomparable
93. Consummate
94. Perfect
95. Ideal
96. Flawless
97. Complete
98. Ultimate
99. Indestructible
100. Determined
101. Enthusiastic
As you look over the list of 101 words, some of them may seem odd;
those words alone may not be powerful, yet combining them with others,
they are "overwhelmingly unstoppable!" :) Use your creativity and imagination.
Begin each day with the exact response you'll use for that day, and use
it every time someone asks you that question. Notice how people react.
If you can get a smile out of them, you're on the right track. Before
long, you will feel differently in a very positive and powerful way.2. Stupendous
3. Fabulous
4. Magnificent
5. Good
6. Great
7. The best
8. Better than ever
9. Incredible
10. Unbelievable
11. Tremendous
12. Prodigious
13. Marvelous
14. Wonderful
15. Brilliant
16. Superb
17. Terrific
18. Excellent
19. Remarkable
20. Exceptional
21. Phenomenal
22. Extraordinary
23. Amazing
24. Awesome
25. Colossal
26. Brilliant
27. Stunning
28. Out of this world
29. Enormous
30. Splendid
31. Glorious
32. Superlative
33. Grand
34. Unmatched
35. Untouchable
36. Unbeatable
37. Best ever
38. Outstanding
39. Supreme
40. First-class
41. First-rate
42. Joyful
43. Delightful
44. Committed
45. Impressive
46. Boundless
47. Unlimited
48. Abundant
49. On top of the world
50. Astonishing
51. Mind-blowing
52. Mind-boggling
53. Sensational
54. Awe-inspiring
55. Spectacular
56. Radiant
57. Extreme
58. Especially
59. Particular
60. Staggering
61. Superb
62. Unparalleled
63. Unrivaled
64. Supreme
65. Invincible
66. Indomitable
67. Absolutely
68. Blissful
69. Elated
70. Ecstatic
71. Jubilant
72. Happy
73. Overjoyed
74. Delighted
75. Inspired
76. Rich
77. Beyond belief
78. Inconceivable
79. Stupefying
80. Unthinkable
81. Bewildering
82. Exciting
83. Astounding
84. Overwhelming
85. Extravagant
86. Beaming
87. Resplendent
88. Intense
89. Radical
90. Hard to believe
91. Beyond compare
92. Incomparable
93. Consummate
94. Perfect
95. Ideal
96. Flawless
97. Complete
98. Ultimate
99. Indestructible
100. Determined
101. Enthusiastic
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